TRYING TO UNDERSTAND THE COMMUNICATION CHALLENGES
IN YOUR NEURODIVERSE RELATIONSHIP?
THE NEUROTRANSLATOR
MAY BE HELPFUL FOR YOU & YOUR PARTNER!
Videos & Other Podcasts
NEURODIVERSE LOVE-Host Mona Kay
Season 1: https://www.neurodiverselove.com/podcastseason1
Season's 2-8: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/neurodiverse-love
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YOUR NEURODIVERSE RELATIONSHIP-Host Jodi Carlton.
https://www.jodicarlton.com/podcast
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HEALING CASSANDRA-Host Margot Alexis
https://www.healingcassandra.com/podcast
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NEURODIVERSE CHRISTIAN COUPLES-Hosts Stephanie and Dan Holmes
https://www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/
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MYTH BUSTING NEURODIVERSE RELATIONSHIPS-Hosts Natalie Roberts and Heather Parks
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wQUXWSZ9SRE
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FABULOUSLY CANDICE: THE SEXIEST PODCAST ABOUT NEURODIVERGENCE-Host-Candice Christiansen
Paul Micallef-Aspergers/Autism from the Inside
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Are We a Good Fit? How To Tell if You Are Right for Each Other. Aspergers from the Inside. October 23, 2020. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nH6EqJ4E3RY
Why Are Relationships So Difficult? (yet still so important to autistic people). Aspergers from the Inside. August 21, 2020. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AjNdW4Lrk1I
Help! I love an Aspie (How to love someone with Aspergers). Aspergers from the Inside, March 1, 2019.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vry6Z-JH-hk
How to Date an Aspie. Aspergers from the Inside, July 13, 2018.
Jodi Carlton
How to make sense of your Autism Spectrum Relationship. Jodi Carlton- November 12, 2020. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P4gCbztcyJA
5 signs your partner may have Autism or Aspergers. Jodi Carlton-April 2, 2020. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aSARFAsN4yg
How to Know if Someone With Asperger's Loves You. Jodi Carlton-February 13, 2017. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eQ0vEae1j9A
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Mark Hutten
The Bad News and the Good News about Emotional Reciprocity: Message to Neurotypical Spouses. (AdultAspergersChat.com)- Mark Hutten,M.A. November 19, 2020. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q8uw9xc3iL8
Conflict and Score Keeping in the Neurodiverse Marriage- (AdultAspergersChat.com)- Mark Hutten,M.A. November 10, 2020. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hw9bmoUWTqM
What You're NOT-Message to Men with ASD. (AdultAspergersChat.com)- Mark Hutten,M.A.
November 7, 2020. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7iRydWn2dZw
It's About the “Team”-Not About You Specifically: Advice for ASD Spouses- (AdultAspergersChat.com)- Mark Hutten,M.A. November 6, 2020.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9WoLZSRRYTE
Why Your ASD Partner Fears Difficult Conversations About Relationship Problems: Tips for NT's-(AdultAspergersChat.com)- Mark Hutten,M.A. October 15, 2020. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aDV9BvJvJ9s
Why Your Partner with Asperger's is so Damn Logical and Unemotional. (AdultAspergersChat.com)- Mark Hutten,M.A. October 14, 2020. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5AH1I9wdjl0
Why Your Neurotypical Spouse is Unhappy or Depressed. (AdultAspergersChat.com)-Mark Hutten,M.A. October 12, 2020. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vLdOxcesdPc
Questions from Neurotypicals About Autism Spectrum Disorder in their Partners/Spouses. (AdultAspergersChat.com)-Mark Hutten,M.A. September 15, 2020. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gRfBqH1MZoc
Why Pleading, Arguing, and Lecturing Gets You Nowhere: Explanation for Neurotypical Partners.(AdultAspergersChat.com)-Mark Hutten,M.A. September 14, 2020. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RiDKzeTobB8
Why Your NT Wife is Such a “NAG”: Tips for Men with ASD. (AdultAspergersChat.com)-Mark Hutten,M.A. September 1, 2020. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7cz9QWhJuEM
How to Improve Emotional Intelligence: Affective Education for People on the Autism Spectrum- (AdultAspergersChat.com)-Mark Hutten,M.A. August 1, 2020. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oGDm_kbvFf4
Executive Function Deficits in ASD and How They Negatively Affect Relationships.(AdultAspergersChat.com)- Mark Hutten,M.A. July 31, 2020.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3ugtXNKzy9k
Anxiety & the “Negativity Bias” in People on the Autism Spectrum. (AdultAspergersChat.com)- Mark Hutten,M.A. July 29, 2020. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BpjB2Vd_Ipg
Your NT Wife is Looking to You For Emotional Support. Where are you? (AdultAspergersChat.com)- Mark Hutten,M.A. July 27, 2020. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=97TY8gRqbts
The NT Challenge-Making Sense of Your ASD Partners Way of Thinking, Feeling and Behaving, (AdultAspergersChat.com)-Mark Hutten,M.A. July 26, 2020. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HtpCJuRoDGU&t=4s
Disparate Passions: Why You Are Struggling in a Neurotypical + ASD Marriage. (AdultAspergersChat.com)-Mark Hutten,M.A. July 24, 2020.
Why Your NT Partner or Spouse is Upset with You: Message to Men on the Autism Spectrum. (AdultAspergersChat.com)-Mark Hutten, M.A. July 17, 2020. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hurTYXI1vdw
Save Your Relationship: Online Group Therapy for Men on the Autism Spectrum. (AdultAspergersChat.com)- Mark Hutten,M.A. July 16, 2020. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MukxnT6-6aA
Traits of AS and High-Functioning Autism that Often Contribute to Relationship Problems. (AdultAspergersChat.com)- Mark Hutten, M.A. July 7, 2020. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I-qU2IsYc98
Why Your AS or HFA Partner “Drifts Away” From the Relationship Over the Years-(AdultAspergersChat.com)-Mark Hutten, M.A. June 24, 2020.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=82U7J9lYT5E
Why Some Men with Asperger's and HFA “Fall Out of Love”-Seemingly Overnight. (AdultAspergersChat.com)- Mark Hutten,M.A. May 29, 2020. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_aLryUSs1Tc
Making Sense of Your AS Partner's Hurtful Behavior-(AdultAspergersChat.com)-Mark Hutten,M.A.
May 21, 2020. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HdCnleq9UKE
The NT Challenge-Making Sense of Your ASD Partner's Way of Thinking, Feeling and Behaving (AdultAspergersChat.com)-Mark Hutten, M.A.-July 16, 2020.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HtpCJuRoDGU
Challenges Facing NT Wives Who Are Married to Men on the Autism Spectrum- (AdultAspergersChat.com)- Mark Hutten,M.A. April 24, 2020. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4QgM6eDyuoc
Dealing with “Mr. Logical”-Tips for NT Spouses.(AdultAspergersChat.com)- Mark Hutten,M.A.
April 4, 2020. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rPxBaOxpkSE
Why the Behavior of an Individual with Asperger's or High-Functioning Autism Can Appear Childish. (AdultAspergersChat.com)- Mark Hutten,M.A. March 3, 2020. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sRv0s0880H8
When You Suspect Your Spouse Has Asperger's-But He Refuses to Seek a Diagnosis. (AdultAspergersChat.com)-Mark Hutten, M.A. March 17, 2020. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M1fZqdJdrNY
Why your AS Partner Blames You for All the Relationship Problems-(AdultAspergersChat.com)- Mark Hutten,M.A. March 6, 2020. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xluTrgTll6U
Why Your AS Partner Prefers Tasks and Objects Over People and Relationships. (AdultAspergersChat.com)-Mark Hutten,M.A. February 21, 2020. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ASyqFlxWGa0
Your AS Partners Meltdowns ALWAYS Start with Anxiety. (AdultAspergersChat.com)-Mark Hutten,M.A. February 20, 2020. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9SEqE4dct5E
Cassandra Syndrome and Relationships with Partners on the Autism Spectrum-(AdultAspergersChat.com)-Mark Hutten, M.A. February 1, 2020.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MKMqaY38Z5U
Why the NT Wife and the AS Husband Have Great Difficulty.(AdultAspergersChat.com)-Mark Hutten,M.A., January 31, 2020. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7iwiAuCdveQ
Why Your Asperger's Partner Has Difficulty Meeting Your Emotional Needs. (AdultAspergersChat.com)-Mark Hutten, M.A. January 18, 2020.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MC9XrjL89PY
Why Your Aspergers Partner is So Sensitive to Criticism. (AdultAspergersChat.com)-Mark Hutten, M.A. January 13, 2020. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8LNPnhCmbSw
WhyYour Asperger's Partner Seems Unable to Understand How You Feel. (AdultAspergersChat.com)-Mark Hutten, M.A. January 11, 2020. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_-dNIdpJMX4
Why the Relationship with Your NT Partner Sucks: Tips for Men with AS. (AdultAspergersChat.com)-Mark Hutten, M.A. January 8, 2020. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BUd2D7KjFHE
When Your Asperger's Partner “Relationship Needs” Are Low: Tips for NT's. (AdultAspergersChat.com)-Mark Hutten, M.A. December 17, 2019. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=96oW9dBZs1E
Challenges Facing Partners Who are Married to Husband's with Asperger's Syndrome- (AdultAspergersChat.com)-Mark Hutten, M.A. September 25, 2019. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6znvIndsJ88
Aspie Husband Talks About Married Life. (AdultAspergersChat.com)-Mark Hutten, M.A. August 4, 2018. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g-7iTtJVN8s
Why Some “Neurotypical” Wives are Unhappy in Their Marriages. (AdultAspergersChat.com)-Mark Hutten, M.A. March 28, 2018. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DlvBG5JLaCU
Asperger's Traits that Get Misinterpreted as “Inapproriate” Behavior. (AdultAspergersChat.com)-Mark Hutten, M.A. September 20, 2017 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z7diduV18N4
Living With an Aspergers Partner-e-book and audio instruction. Mark Hutten, M.A.
December 11, 2015
Relationships with Partners on the Autism Spectrum. (AdultAspergersChat.com)-Mark Hutten, M.A.
October 21, 2015. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ezVOw-xQ6MM
Relationships and Mindblindness with Men with Asperger's. (AdultAspergersChat.com)-Mark Hutten, M.A. April 21, 2014. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bXSwGBQxW8s
Asperger's Men and Marriage Problems. (AdultAspergersChat.com)-Mark Hutten, M.A. April 16, 2014. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mQ2E7I4vvo4
Obsessions and the Asperger's Mind: Help for People on the Autism Spectrum- (AdultAspergersChat.com)-Mark Hutten, M.A. May 31, 2013. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=635HvPE1OyA
Living with an Asperger's Partner: The Neurotypical Wife's Grief Cycle. (AdultAspergersChat.com)-Mark Hutten, March 17, 2013. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oSQMQ4MgU64
Help for Aspergers Couples. Mark Hutten, M.A. July 23, 2011. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nUA4SXHBUFo
OTHER VIDEOS
Autism-Relationship Advice You Need to Know. Anna Moomin. July 8, 2019.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bCn9Bt5_JNA
Dating and Aspie; A Year on! Anna Moomin. September 3, 2018.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nYYQc4PoVcs
Asperger's Dating and Relationships-Anna Moomin-March 16, 2015. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sigNbcl-pso
Dating Someone with Autism:Important Things to Remember-Video-Special Bridge.
August 9, 2020.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8FKhANbwTFY
Kirsten Lindsmith talks about Neurologically Mixed Relationships at Love and Autism-Wrong Planet. Love & Autism Conference lecture-October 26, 2016. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e7TqYkzGaUU&t=18s
How Autism affects our relationship-couples Q&A-Kate Flowers YouTube Video-October 22, 2020. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0QHI1iZ818M
Asperger's In Love, From Helplessly Confused to Head Over Heals, PsychCentral-Video. September 1, 2014. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I81AsKfIBMU&t=570s
Loving a Partner with Autism. Interview with Kathy Marshack, Ph.D.-Autism Live.
June 22, 2018.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=__ITJrrxvFA
“Asperger Love”-An Interview with author Amy Harmon, autismhangout.com.
March 27, 2013.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3fbHQxx1DwM
Autism and Love: Anita & Abraham's Epic Love Story. Futures Explored Film Studio. March 10, 2016. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=USH3WLFAeuY
Why Autism is Sexier Then You Think it Is. Amy Graviano-TEDx Jersey City.
September 28, 2017. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=shgy43CxBX8
Aspergers Relationships-Love Language (MUST SEE). The Aspie World.
October 30, 2020. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_ZHyOT-yrQY
5 Dating Aspergers Dating Tips to Help You! (Are You Making These Mistakes?). The Aspie World. January 30, 2020. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wOlT4IqKBoI
Aspergers Relationships-How Do You Maintain a Relationship (3 Tips). The Aspie World. August 15, 2019. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TNu1SijxCdA
Aspergers and Relationships helpful info. The Aspie World. February 3, 2016.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9tjEZbfLuok
Dating Advice for Adults with Autism. CBC News-The National. January 4, 2016. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qgF89DzkgH4
How to Help Asperger's Clients in Their Romantic Relationships- Uncommon Practitioners. February 21, 2020. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fH9CS4RjJ-E
Tips for Romantic Relationships with Autistic Partners-Purple Ella. April 26, 2019.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ttIkvdu5Lgc&t=1s
Autism AND Sexuality/Purple Ella. April 26, 2018.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=25sUhR-oA0g
Autism and Intimacy: The KEY message! Adam Wonders. May 30, 2020. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BzjXjarSS88
Male Asperger's Sexuality: Is Dating Impossible. Adam Wonders. July 2, 2019. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ixgV5-OBQXg&t=192s
Autistic Wife, Neurotypical Husband-Neurodiverse Relationship Q & A. Stephanie Bethany. September 5, 2019. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vgduXRnLPyo
Austic and Neurotypical Relationship Tips -Stephanie Bethany. April 19, 2019. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mLhLPIqixoQ
Communication: A Necessary Skill to Strengthen or Dissolve a Neurodiverse Relationship by Leslie Sickels, LCSW. Asperger/Autism Network AANE. June 10, 2019. htps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cwtKfVx56iI&t=80s
Viewing Marriage & Long Term Relationships Through An Asperger's Lens presented by Grace Myhill, LICSW and Eva Mendes, MA, LHMC, July 28, 2016. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fFOMS16JOY0
Dating on the Autism Spectrum: A Valentine's Day Chat. Autism Speaks. February 14, 2018. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBoHUtq9r2E
Aspergers in Love; From Helplessly Confused to Head over Heals in Love. Alina Kislenko-PsychCentral. September 1, 2014. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I81AsKfIBMU
Stephen Shore- Life with Autism, Music, Marriage, Professorship and Relationships . International Center for Autism and Research. March 5, 2014. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rmCW5b8YF2s
Social and Personal Relationships on the Autism Spectrum Sarah Hendrickx. National Autism Society-South Hampshire. May 1, 2019 .
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l-Ifwh2QcE8
Simon Baron-Cohen: Autism Spectrum Test-Wired 2012.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LYys7rhRcDU
Autism Diagnosis Criteria: explained (DSM-5). Yo Samdy Sam. May 8, 2020. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1yva4RZW_s0
Could YOU Be Autistic? (and not know) Yo Samdy Sam. October 18, 2019. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ot46-YGUF4Y
Could it be Asperger's?-Generation Next. Professor Tony Attwood-
January 25, 2016. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LuZFThlOiJI
How can a wife love a husband who suffers from Asperger Syndrome. Dr. Mike Emlet-September 28, 2011.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LGsC7b0CAWc&list=ULqi89YuKNgyU&index=90
What it is like to date a Guy with Asperger's? Part 1: First and second dates. FruitorColor. October 18, 2017. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OhA27tEq8zo
What it is like to date a Guy with Asperger's? Part 2: 3rd date and later. FruitorColor. October 19, 2017. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qYkkNf1qlcs
Dating Advice for People with Asperger's Syndrome- Lifey Health.
November 14, 2016. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zofgcBsOLzc
Rethinking Neurodiversity, with Tim Goldstein-episode EDB 223- Different Brains. November 1, 2020. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iOVhwbXm2uY
Love and Autism: Exploring Romance and Neurodiversity with Jennifer Palmiotto-Podcast episode EDB 50 on Different Brains. October 4, 2016.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I78a6N1W3Sw
Neurodiversity-The Key that Unlocked My World. Elisabeth Wiklander-TedXGoteborg. February 9, 2017. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qvvrme5WIwA
Autism and Relationships: Sam Goes Dating. July 26,2016. Attitude. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JuKrbmPiJo4
High Functioning Autism Aspergers and Relationships. Adultswithautism.
November 29, 2011. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mS8jxmZL-dY
Active and Passive Touch. Autism Marriage Edition. Hacking Autism. May 28, 2019. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t-62i0oUVrU
How to Do a Wedding with Autism. Hacking Autism. June 15, 2018. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HCsYwUE7IsE
Rudy Simone's 22 Things a Women with Asperger's Syndrome Wants Her Partner to Know. JKP Videos. June 28, 2012. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QwjNcYemGV0
Asperger's Girl-Relationships. Anja Melissa. June 4, 2016.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=el3HmTVz_yY
Autism and Falling in Love. Autism Live. December 16, 2014, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kpkG4HEJPpU